Developmental Parenting Coaches Community | Heeramani (Miku) Anchalia | Activity

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 13:16:21 +0530

Have you experienced yourself yelling at your child sometimes and then regretting it later? We all have experienced that feeling of regret. We yell, when kids are not listening to what we say, the house is messy, had a hard day,etc.. And we loose control.Ultimately we become BLIND (parent,who is running high with negative emotions) and meet the BLIND (child, who is desperately craving for your connection). We are here to lead our children into calm and if we are not calm, How can we expect calm behaviour from our child. Do you know the root cause of why we yell? Because we need a specific response. If we don't get that, we React. By yelling,we scare them,they are not able to think enough and learn. Research has showed yelling is directly linked to-- • Low self esteem • High rates of depression • Increased aggression • Insecurity. Children learn it's alright to vent out frustration,when things don't go according to them. So take a PAUSE, focus on your breathe, Instead of reacting try to RESPOND.

Sat, 17 Apr 2021 15:32:26 +0530

Have you experienced yourself yelling at your child sometimes and then regretting it later?
We all have experienced that feeling of regret.

We yell,
when kids are not listening to what we say,
the house is messy,
had a hard day,etc..
And we loose control.Ultimately we become BLIND (parent,who is running high with negative
emotions) and…Read More

Why is my child not able to understand concepts at once? How many times should I explain you? Can't you understand in one go? Child’s brain is not a miniature of adult brain. Child's brain 🧠 is born under construction that wires by itself to the world around them. And it’s up to us (parents)to create a world — physical, social, psychological, emotional— that is "rich with wiring instructions." Based on research in neuroscience and psychology, following are parenting rules to build strong and resilient brain. 1. Be a gardener,not a carpenter. 2. Talk and read to your child a lot. 3. Explain things. 4. Describe the activity,not the person 5. Applaud them. #transformingparents #helpingparents #loveforthem #helpingparentstobunderstandchildren #connectingbetter #littleones #mikuanchalia #parentcoachtoddler #DEEP #cherishedminds

Thu, 15 Apr 2021 17:53:02 +0530

Why is my child not able to understand concepts at once?

How many times should I explain you? Can’t you understand in one go?

Child’s brain is not a miniature of adult brain.
Child’s brain 🧠 is born under construction that wires by itself to the world around them.

And it’s up to us (parents)to create a world — physical, socia…Read More