HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD FIND HER LOST THINGS

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HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD FIND HER LOST THINGS

‘Nothing is really lost until your mom can’t find it.’

  This is the thought of even a three year old whenever she has lost something belonging to her. It is quiet natural for any individual to be worried when they lose something which they may need urgently… and this need depends on the age we are dealing with. For an adult it may be an important file, a pen or a favourite shirt and for a child the object may range from a toy car to the school notebook.

  According to the self proclaimed Findologist Michael Solomon, author of          ‘How to find Lost Objects’…. “Don’t get frantic and keep searching around. There are no missing objects, only unsystematic searches and clutter.” Solomon says if everything is in its place, nothing will be lost.

When your young child faces such a situation you believe that a good parent’s job is to look for the thing and find it for the child so as to make her calm and comfortable. Yet this should not be the principle of good parenting. Whenever your child loses something grab this as an opportunity to help your child be both responsible and accountable or let her move a step further being irresponsible and careless. Here is an easy step wise approach that can help your child and you to work together and help build up a responsible attitude and develop critical thinking also.

  • Retrace their day with them.
  • Ask them, Where they last saw the lost item? Also When was that?
  • Ask, Was there anyone else with them at that time? This will give a good start to the search.
  • Make sure to include your child on the searching process along with you.
  • The questioning here is the most important strategy to trigger thinking in the child, so DO NOT skip it.

The easiest way to solve the problem of lost things is to go out and replace them with new ones. Unfortunately this is the worst thing a parent can do as by doing so your child will not be able to learn from her mistakes and will most likely repeat them for the rest of her life.

Some practices that can be followed by parents to make your child more responsible—

  • Repetitions helps —fix a regular routine of packing same things, at the same time and in similar fashion.
  • Make sure that your child and NOT YOU place her stuff back at its place after use.
  • Prepare a picture checklist for your ward’s things where she can put check marks for stuff placed back at its place and feel motivated when done.
  • Finally help your child understand that ‘IF YOU MESS UP, FESS UP.

By

Inderpreet Dave

DEEP Parenting

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  • Wow… amazing tips…. knowingly or unknowingly we often try for the easy way out …but from.now onwards we will make sure to inculcate these small habits in their daily routine….thx so mch…keep guiding and inspiring

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  • Truly worth following your advise do keep us looped in for your future tips . You should look at a professional practise of the same . . You will rock .

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  • The very basic of every child and mom’s life…i must follow it…thank u dear

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  • You really are an amazing parenting coach… ! Very helpful blog! Waiting for more such!! Thank you for sharing such a wonderful tip.

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  • Nicely wrote👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Amazing work

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  • This is gold! Practical strategies in baby steps. Love the simplicity that makes this piece so profound.

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  • I read the blog and It’s really a very helpful for everyone. Thanks for sharing such a wonderful things

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  • Wow..That’s unique. Never thought about it this way. Sometimes few trivial issues are worth considering. Thanks for sharing 👍👍

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